Appends embeddings and their children ids to the node at group_path,
creating its arrays on the first call; the ids go in child_key
(node_ids or item_ids). border is left at its fill value, never populated.
Appends embeddings (stored as dtype) to the array at embeddings_path
and ids to the one at ids_path, creating both on the first call.
chunk_shape only applies on creation.